Eye Tricks and Mind Reading
What tricks can you do with your eyes? We'll have more about
that in a moment. But first let's look at what you can determine
from watching a person's eyes. We start with obvious yet under-utilized
If you watch what person is watching, you can learn a lot
about him or her. In other words, pay attention to what kind
of women a man looks at and you'll be more able to predict future
thoughts and actions. And what about television habits? Does
he pay any attention to the game on the TV or the political news?
Note whether he seems bored or interested as he looks at different
things and you'll have some insight into his mind.
Eye Watching Tricks - Part Two
You can tell what people's minds are doing when they are thinking
or when they are asked to remember something, according to neuro-linguistic
programming (NLP) practitioners. The following is said to be
true for most right handed people, and you can reverse all this
for left-handed people. As you face them, if his or her eyes
Up to the right - He is remembering a visual image.
Up to the left - He is constructing a visual image.
Right - He is remembering sounds or conversation.
Left - He is constructing sounds or conversations.
Down to the right - He is in an internal dialog.
Down to the left - He is accessing kinesthetic feelings,
tastes and smells.
Eyes and the Opposite Sex
A persons pupils get bigger when they are aroused, interested
and/or receptive. If you look into his or her eyes and see those
pupils growing large - it's looking good for you. Basically big
pupils (unless it's just getting dark) mean that a person likes
what he or she sees.
It isn't just what is seen, though, but also what is imagined.
There is a simple experiment you can do right now to understand
how immediate and noticeable this effect can be. Look in the
mirror at your own eyes, and as you look at them, imagine a sexy
man or woman you are attracted to, and do so in whatever way
makes you a bit excited. You'll notice that your pupils get bigger
in just seconds as you are watching them.
This is not just a sexual response. If, for example, you love
to fish, your pupils may get big just thinking about a lake you
love to visit. Imagining anything you like to look at can make
your pupils bigger. You can verify this with a mirror and a bit
Practice a bit and you'll find that you can quickly train
yourself to change your pupil size at will. Just find a mental
image or two that make them grow really big, and use these images
as necessary. You can look at a light briefly when you want to
shrink your pupils back down to a smaller size quickly.
Now, how do you use this eye trick? We will leave you with
one example, but first it is necessary to point out that we all
unconsciously use little clues like pupil size as we interact
with people around us. We are affected by people's body language
unconsciously even when we haven't yet learned to identify it
at a conscious level. In other words, among the reasons we are
attracted to a person, there are subtle messages we pick up on.
Specifically, we know on some level that larger pupils indicate
interest, and we like those who we sense like us. Or, to put
that in a more useful order, the person in front of you will
unconsciously pick upon your enlarging pupils when you choose
to make them bigger. He or she will unconsciously take this to
mean that you are attracted, and for many people, this will help
persuade them (at an unconscious level) to like you and to be
attracted to you. By enlarging your pupils at will, you can effectively
establish rapport more quickly. This is one of the easier subliminal
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