Eye Tricks
Eye tricks?
Tricks you can do with your eyes? I'll have more on that in
a moment. First, let's look at what you can tell by watching
a persons eyes.
If you watch what person is watching, you can learn a lot
about him or her. What kind of women does a man look at? Does
he pay any attention to the game on the TV? Note whether he seems
bored or interested as he looks at different things.
Eye watching tricks - part two.
You can tell what people's minds are doing when they are thinking
or asked to remember something, according to neuro-linguistic
programming (NLP) practitioners. The following is true for most
right handed people (reverse all this for left-handed people):
As you face them, and their eyes go...
Up to the right - They are remembering a visual image.
Up to the left - They are constructing a visual image.
Right - They are remembering sounds or conversation.
Left - The are constructing sounds or conversations.
Down to the right - They are in an internal dialog.
Down to the left - They are accessing kinesthetic feelings,
tastes and smells.
Eye Tricks and the Opposite Sex
A persons pupils get bigger when they are aroused, interested
and/or receptive. If you look into his or her eyes and see those
pupils growing large - it's looking good for you. Basically big
pupils (unless it's just dark) mean a person likes what they
see.
It isn't just what you see, though, but what you imagine too.
Try an experiment to understand how immediate this effect can
be. Go right now and look in the mirror at your own eyes. As
you look at them, imagine a sexy man or woman you are attracted
to - in whatever way would turn you on.
You'll see that your pupils get bigger in just seconds. Actually,
if you love to fish, they may get big just thinking about a lake
you love. Imagining anything you like to look at can make your
pupils bigger.
You'll find that you can quickly train yourself to change
your pupil size at will. Just find a mental image or two that
gets them really big, and use these as necessary. Look at a light
briefly when you want to shrink your pupils back down. Now, how
do you use this eye trick?
First, understand that we all unconsciously use little clues
like pupil size as we interact with people. We are affected by
people's body language even when we haven't yet learned to identify
it. There are reasons why we are attracted to a person, even
when we don't know what those reasons are.
In other words - the person in front of you will unconsciously
pick upon your enlarging pupils. They will unconsciously take
this to mean that you like them, and for many people, this will
make them like you more. By enlarging your pupils at will, you
can effectively establish rapport more quickly. This is one of
the easier subliminal eye tricks.
|
